Oh, how right you are, Bertie!

"It will mean that Mrs. Little will get the goods on Mr. Little to an extent that which, though only a bachelor myself, I should say that no wife ought to get the goods on her husband if the proper give and take of married life - what you might call the essential balance, as it were - is to be preserved. Women bring these things up, Jeeves. They do not forgive and forget." (from Very Good, Jeeves, by Sir P. G. Wodehouse)