Maturity and self-discipline

Sometime people are so obnoxious that they are just not worth messing with. However, I fear (at least in my case) that sometimes the problem is with me, that I have not learned to control myself so as to deal with dignity with adverse circumstances and difficult people. If we learn how to do that - to accept the responsibility ourselves instead of throwing it off on others - then we are much more equipped to make our way in society. Being anti-social can be a sign of personal defects.